Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Begin at the Beginning
I had always wanted to go back to school. And one day, thirty years later, I did. I don't know what gave me the guts to do it, other than a burning desire to finish something I had started years ago. When the day came to register, I was terrified and got cold feet.
"I decided that I'm not going back to school," I told my family. "I don't really want this after all. I'm going to forget about it."
My daughter, who was a freshman in college at the time, sensed my apprehension. "Mom," she pleaded, "you've wanted to do this all your life. I'll go with you to register; I'll even stand in line for you." And that she did.
I had dropped out of college in my senior year, and now it was like starting all over again. I didn't know where to start. As chance would have it, in one of the first textbooks I opened as "an older returning student," I came across a quote by Lewis Carroll (from his books, Alice in Wonderland and Through the Looking Glass): "Begin at the beginning," the King said gravely, "and go on till you come to the end; then stop." My sentiments exactly, Mr. Carroll. Thank you.
But it had been a long time since I had "cracked a book." I studied sometimes eight hours a day, forgetting to eat lunch or feed the goldfish. My husband and I would have to make dates (only on weekends) in order to see one another, and at times I felt guilty for choosing to spend an hour in the library and then having to make dinner from a box.
When my graduation day finally arrived, I was ecstatic. Not only was I fulfilling a lifelong dream, but my daughter was also graduating - on the same day. We had a mother-daughter celebration with family and friends, proudly displaying our newly acquired bachelor of arts degrees. I have never been so proud of my daughter. And when my daughter stood next to me at picture-taking time, our black robes melding into one, I could tell that she was very proud of her mother.
Shortly after graduation, I attained teaching credentials. And because I loved to learn and found teaching to be one of the best avenues to learning, I decided to continue my studies and go for a master of arts degree in education and creative writing. It was an excellent choice. I loved teaching, and I loved writing. With a degree in interdisciplinary studies, I could combine the two.
Graduate school was exhausting and overwhelming at times. I cut my hair short and got the first permanent of my life so that I wouldn't have to bother with setting my hair. I learned to make a two-hour spaghetti sauce rather than my usual six-hour one and learned that I could live without my nightly rendezvous with Ted Danson from Cheers.
The next two years flew by, but it wasn't easy. At one point, I came home from school, threw my books on the kitchen counter, and announced to my family, "I'm quitting! I've had it!" After crying for a couple of hours and talking it over, I realized I had come too far to quit now. I had run the race well, and I was tired. I decided I would take one day at a time, resting along the sidelines.
I was in my final quarter of graduate school with only one class left to take when I was diagnosed with cancer. Cancer? Was I going to die? Would I have to leave my children before I wanted to? Would I be able to finish school?
A couple of days later, shaken and apprehensive, I appeared at my professor's door, leaving a puddle of tears and broken dreams on his shoulders. "Don't worry about it," he said. "We can work something out."
"But I have to go to Los Angeles for seven weeks of radiation therapy and won't be able to come to class." He suggested that I do my work in Los Angeles and send it to him through the mail. We could keep in touch by telephone.
"And don't give up," he said adamantly. "I have never met a student with so much determination. You are the kind of student teachers come to school for. And you have to use that same determination to fight this thing."
I promised him I would finish my schoolwork, and I would fight for my life. The kitchen table in my apartment in Los Angeles became my desk for the next seven weeks. I went for my treatment across the street then returned to my apartment and kitchen table to study and write my papers. I mailed my completed assignments from a post office nearby.
Right before Christmas, I graduated with honors and a master of arts degree in education and English. My graduation day was special for a lot of reasons. I had finished my radiation treatments and had finished my schoolwork. My husband and my children, along with my mother, sister and brother, were in the audience of the auditorium when they called my name and handed me my diploma. My eyes met theirs, and I wanted to shout, "Hey! Look at me! I did it!" After I passed my tassel to the left side of my cap from the right, I waved to them like I was royalty. Queen Elizabeth had nothing on me!
As I write this piece, I am three years clean of cancer. I take each day and live it, keeping my promise to my professor and to myself to fight for my life. I have lived to see my daughter become a teacher and my son graduate from college with a degree in psychology. Talk about pride!
And still today, I continue my own journey down the avenue of learning. I learn something new every day from my students who sit in front of me with questioning faces. They are my greatest teachers. I have taught many children in these past three years and have prayed daily that I have touched their lives as they have touched mine.
And in my quiet times, I can take a pen in my hand and write my thoughts and feelings on a clean sheet of paper, something I've loved to do since I was a child. Life doesn't get much better than this.
Monday, December 29, 2008
Calendaring (the real story)
Here goes:
- Discern well. Listen. Become brave. Decide. Move on.
- Clean up my name and mess.
- Run with Louisa.
- Set up the Wireless Network at home (especially now that Andoy is back on track and that my Nintendo DS has a cool internet thingie).
- Faith formation.
- Sort my files (in Andoy and the PC).
- Civil Service Exam.
- Send snail mail to my relatives abroad.
- Family matters.
- Apply for Canada.
- Throw away my useless stuff from GS to College.
- Make that drawing project with Vinia.
- Get/Stay in touch with my old blockmates (DS and Lit).
- Food for DevSoc first GA. :)
- Learn how to drive.
- Get my SSS ID.
- Apply for a postal ID.
- Get a sedula.
- Go to Ayala Museum (sulitin ang membership) and other Museums.
- Read at least 3 novels.
- Write a research paper. (Guita!!! HELP!)
- Score 100 in Timezone basketball. Haha.
- Organize Canticle of St. Francis matters. (song line ups, formation, etc)
- Complete the nine mornings of Simbang Gabi.
- Enroll for Flute Classes, and master at least one piece.
- Attend a retreat.
- Clean up my Yahoo! and Gmail email accounts.
- IMPUKAN turnover.
- ANI Alumni 10th Anniversary Homecoming.
- Caroling.
Yun lang muna for now. I'll post again from time to time about this.
FRIENDS! I NEED ALL YOUR SUPPORT. >:D<
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Light
Please take me out of here. Take me out of the dark. Help me to see. Where should I go? Where am I headed. I don't want to hurt anymore. I want to run free. I want to run in the light. I want to run in the sunlight. Under the clouds. Under the stars.
Until when will I wait? Until when will I hope? Until when till my eyes will be opened?
I just want to give my all, I just want to give my best. I just want to love well.
Half a year? I hope it'll be over soon. I need patience and strength.
Maligayang Pasko
Maligayang Pasko sa iyo at sa iyong pamilya. :)
Monday, December 22, 2008
The Mighty One has done great things for me
And Mary said: "My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord; my spirit rejoices in God my savior. For he has looked upon his handmaid's lowliness; behold, from now on will all ages call me blessed. The Mighty One has done great things for me, and holy is his name. His mercy is from age to age to those who fear him. He has shown might with his arm, dispersed the arrogant of mind and heart. He has thrown down the rulers from their thrones but lifted up the lowly. The hungry he has filled with good things; the rich he has sent away empty. He has helped Israel his servant, remembering his mercy, according to his promise to our fathers, to Abraham and to his descendants forever." Mary remained with her about three months and then returned to her home.
Thursday, December 18, 2008
Saturday, December 13, 2008
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
I Miss My DS Kiddies
Grabe, I really miss my DS Kiddies. I miss being their "Yaya". Pwede ko pa rin ba kayo alagaan? Waaaaaah. Anobuzz. :P
Yun lang. :) Ayoko na, ang drama. :P Pakabait!
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"My Yoke is Easy"
Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart; and you will find rest for your selves. For my yoke is easy, and my burden light."
Copyright © Confraternity of Christian Doctrine, USCCB
Commentary of the day :
Blessed Teresa of Calcutta (1910-1997), foundress of the Missionary Sisters of Charity
Jesus, the Word to be spoken, ch.7
God bears within himself a very great humility. He is able to stoop down to people like ourselves and become dependant on us for such activities as living, growing and bearing fruit. He could have done this instantaneously without our help. However, he stooped down to us, he has led each one of us here, to call us together and make up this community. If you had refused, he would not have been able to do it. And indeed, we could have refused; each one of us could have said «No». God would have waited patiently until someone had said «Yes».
What makes me understand this is when Jesus says: «Learn of me, for I am meek and humble of heart.» He truly wanted us to accept that the call of each one of us is truly a gift of God himself.
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Tuesday, December 09, 2008
Will you be my Ninong / Ninang?
Thursday, December 04, 2008
consolation
Wednesday, December 03, 2008
AN INVITATION to Take and Receive: The First Festival of Ateneo Music
Church of the Gesù
Ateneo Chamber Singers (Jonathan Velasco, Conductor)
Ateneo College Glee Club (Ma. Lourdes Hermo, Conductor)
Ateneo High School Glee Club (Jose Emmanuel Aquino, Conductor)
Dulaang Sibol (Dr. Onofre Pagsanghan, Managing Director)
Jesuit Music Ministry (Fr. JBoy Gonzales, SJ, Director): Blue Symphony, Bukas Palad, Himig Heswita & Musica Chiesa
Take and Receive: The First Festival of Ateneo Music
Ateneo choirs to stage free thanksgiving concert for the community
Mimi D. Agbay
Project Coordinator - Ateneo Sesquicentennial
Phone No.: +632 426.6001 loc. 4083
Mobile No.: +63 917.8933379
http://150.ateneo.edu
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Tuesday, December 02, 2008
Jaymee's Wish List
1. Bayan Umawit! Songbook (P200 sa JesComm--actually para sa Choir ko ito :D)
2. Nokia 5300 Express Music Crystal Case
3. Earphones
4. Super Tibay na Umbrella na kulay peenk ulit.
5. Nintendo DS Lite Hard Case -- any color except green (P300)
6. Nintendo DS Lite screen protector
7. Speakers na handy na malakas (para sa apostolate ko yey)
8. Corrinne May CD (yung may Everything in Its Time song)
9. God of Silence CD (P300 sa JesComm, pero kung may kilala kayong scholastic, P250 nalang)
10. The Collected Writings of Venancio Calpotura, SJ, Volume One: Formative Spirituality (P290 sa JesComm)
11. The Collected Writings of Venancio Calpotura, SJ, Volume Two: Ignatian Spirituality (P290 sa JesComm)
12. The Shattered Lantern: Rediscovering a Felt Presence of God, revised ed. (P200 sa JesComm)
13. Any ACGC CD (Contact Guita Gopalan: 0917-8042253)
14. Prayers from the Upper Room / Sing of Him Song Book (P500 sa JesComm)
15. Any Prayers Wrapped in Song CD (P250 sa JesComm)
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RERUN: ACIL Homecoming 2008
WHO: All Ateneo Catechetical Instruction League (ACIL) Alumni
WHAT: R.E.R.U.N: The Homecoming
WHERE: MVP Center for Student Leadership (basement)
WHEN: December 5, 2008
WHY: To relive your glory days in ACIL, celebrate its 103rd year and give
support as it aims for forever.
*We would like to ask for an amount of at least P500.00 upon registration which will
cover not only a sumptuous dinner but also financial aid for the projects of ACIL namely
Caroling '08, Komunyunidad (Area Kid's First Holy Communion), Medical Mission and 3-day
Ignatian Silent Retreat.
(P250.00 non-ACIL loved ones and guests)
Help us spread the news to your alumni friends! Help us reach the alumni network through
you!
Kindly forward this email-blast to your fellow Acilistas. If your hands are full, just
send us their contact details, preferably email addresses or contact numbers and we will
be the ones to contact them. We are hoping to gather a large number of former Acilistas
and we need your help to reach the older generations.
Furthermore, we are also working on a special video to be shown on the homecoming night.
This will feature how ACIL has developed over the years. If you still have pictures of
former ACIL areas and events, please send them or the link to acilweek103_core@yahoogroups.com. We are also looking for ACIL alumni, and members of the old communities like the ACIL kids, to be interviewed for the video. If you wish to
volunteer or have contact numbers of people we can approach for help, please email them
to acilweek103_core@yahoogroups.com. Thank you.
We can't wait to see you again soon!
Yours truly,
ACIL Batch 2008
Mary Grace Anne S. Rosales
AB Philosophy 2009
Minor in Literature
Ateneo Catechetical Instruction League
President, 2008-2009
Ateneo de Manila University
09153081074 / marygraceanne@y!
Sunday, November 30, 2008
All the bad choices
Watch!
Be watchful! Be alert! You do not know when the time will come. It is like a man traveling abroad. He leaves home and places his servants in charge, each with his work, and orders the gatekeeper to be on the watch. Watch, therefore; you do not know when the lord of the house is coming, whether in the evening, or at midnight, or at cockcrow, or in the morning. May he not come suddenly and find you sleeping. What I say to you, I say to all: 'Watch!'"
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Pathways Christmas Gift Packs - Helping make Christmas more meaningful =)
You might want to consider our Christmas products as your gifts to your loved ones this season. :) Read the letter below for more details. Please forward to your other friends/egroups.
Thanks! Merry Christmas!
Jaymee
*Apologies to those who will receive this more than once.
Pathways to Higher Education
Ateneo de Manila University
Tel (632)426-6001 loc. 4045
Fax (632)920-0153
http://www.pathwaysphilippines.org/
Subject: Pathways Christmas Gift Packs - Helping make Christmas more meaningful =)
Christmas is a time for giving and Pathways to Higher Education would like to help make gift-giving special and more meaningful!
We invite you to share these organic products, all grown and harvested by our fellow Filipino farmers. They are packed by public high school students in festive Christmas bags, ready for giving. These are gifts that will surely be enjoyed by family and friends. At the same time, they will derive fulfillment in the thought that they participate in
helping deserving public high school students fulfill their dreams towards a college education.
With each gift pack of the DREAM TEAM, MIN-TEA GENEROSI-TEA and GRAINS OF HOPE, you share in the vision of Pathways and spread the spirit of love and care this Christmas season.
Enclosed is the PDF file featuring the products. We are ready to accept orders already. Please feel free to email us at info.pathways@ gmail.com or fax the order slip to 920-0153. Look for Donna de Jesus.
Warmest Christmas wishes,
Solvie
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Sunday, November 23, 2008
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Sick
I wonder what you're thinking now that you've read this. :( Hay. Leave me alone, unless if you know how to make me feel better..
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Sunday, November 16, 2008
Christmas Gift
Think. Think. Think. I need a theme.
Saturday, November 15, 2008
Got ANI? Unleash you inner child for the Tambay Week!
The VOLUNTEER FORMATION TEAM envisions the ANI Volunteer to be competent, socially aware and spiritually grounded. This we achieve through activities that shall form the ANI volunteers in three areas:
Social Awareness, Community Building and Spiritual and Self-Awareness.
Mamulat. Makiisa. Manalangin. _
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"Pack with Love"
"The team spent the night at the Divine Word College of Legazpi.
December 21, 2006
(parts omitted)
By the afternoon, some groups went to Cagsawa, others helped in the repacking of goods at the relief center. A profound lesson was shared here by our younger volunteers: when packing relief goods, pack with love. :-) Really, need we say more?
Two other activities for the day, debriefing of a local NGO staff and evening debriefings in an evacuation center, were cancelled.
December 22, 2006
The team returned to ground zero in San Isidro, Santo Domingo to go house to house and conduct debriefings when possible. We left for Manila at 6pm." (from Ate Kay's blog--HERE)
PACK WITH LOVE.
I guess I already forgot that I was the one who gave that insight. It's just now that I've encountered it again. It's a great reminder for me, who lately have just been focusing on getting the tasks done. I've been missing on the "with love" aspect of doing things.
In everything that I do, I must always remember this--to do everything with love. After all, magis isn't just about doing more per se, but rather loving more.
"Pack with love."
Pray Unceasingly
Saint Basil (c.330-379), monk and Bishop of Caesarea in Cappadocia, Doctor of the Church
Homily 5
Don't restrict your prayer simply to asking in words. To be sure, God has no need of discussion; even were we to ask him nothing, he knows what is needful for us. What is there to say? Prayer does not consist in formulae; it encompasses the whole of life. «Whatever you eat or drink,» the apostle Paul says, «or whatever you do, do everything for the glory of God» (1Cor 10,31). Are you at table? Pray. In taking bread, give thanks to him who bestowed it; in drinking wine, remember him who gave you this gift to rejoice your heart and solace your ills. Once the meal is finished, do not fail, come what may, in the remembrance of your benefactor. When you put on your tunic, thank him who gave it you; when you put on your cloak, bear witness to your regard for the God who provides us with clothing suitable for winter and summer and so as to protect our life.
When day is done thank him who has given you sun for the day's work and fire to give light at night and supply for our needs. Nighttime provides you with cause for thanksgiving: when looking at the sky and contemplating the beauty of the stars, pray to the Lord of the universe who has made all things with such wisdom. When you see all nature lying asleep, adore again him who relieves all our weariness with sleep and restores the vigor of our strength with a little rest.
In this way you will pray without ceasing if your prayer does not satisfy itself with formulae but, to the contrary, you remain united to God throughout your existence in such a way as to make of your life an unceasing prayer.
co-workers in the truth
Beloved, you are faithful in all you do for the brothers, especially for strangers; they have testified to your love before the church. Please help them in a way worthy of God to continue their journey. For they have set out for the sake of the Name and are accepting nothing from the pagans. Therefore, we ought to support such persons, so that we may be co-workers in the truth.
iMiss
I am now missing a lot of things. I miss school, the laid back atmosphere of school. Now that I have experienced both, I would say that I like school more. Work is really HARD WORK.
I miss my friends. I miss hanging out for hours with them. I miss org work. I miss my block. I miss DS. I miss group works. I miss cram times. Hay.
Senti. :( I feel so lonely.
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Thursday, November 13, 2008
Lumiliit lalo ang mundo.
P.S. I still want a Jollibee doll! :( wah. Haha. Labo.. Thank you!
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Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Para Happy...
As of now, I will be VERY VERY happy if you get me any of these for Christmas:
- the Jollibee Hug & Share Doll: "May mayayakap ka na, may natulungan ka pa." PLEAAASE! I really want one. As in. :) I super love Jollibee, and when you buy one, you get to help the beneficiaries of Jollibee MaAga ang Pasko.

- Earphones. I lost the earphones that came with my Nokia Phone. Any earphone would do since I have a converter for the Nokia. The earphone would help me with my prayer time! :) Err. I use the points from http://www.pray-as-you-go.org/. Any earphone would do :)
- Journal. A nice hardbound notebook for my 2009 journaling.
- Umbrella. I broke mine (the one Pathways gave me...). It's a really nice one. Tho I'll have it fixed, too. But I still want another one so that I have a spare. :P
- Nintendo DS Lite Accessories. Screen protector. Hard case. :P
- Speakers. Something loud and is not bulky to bring anywhere. It would be helpful for some of my apostolate work. :)
- Surprise!
- Bonding session.
- Books, CDs, etc.
Well, that is all for now. :P Haha. I just dumped everything I could think of.
For the random stuff... I shall call the UP College of Music tomorrow to ask about the schedule for the Flute classes. If it fits my schedule, then I'd probably enroll. But I'm not too sure yet. I'll think more. :P
Oh, and cool. My cousin is part of the Ateneo Idol. I was so surprised to see her tarp near Leong Hall this morning. Cool! :) Vote for her! Yey. Go Martha!
Ayun. Yun lang.
Sige, I'll sleep now. :P
Sunday, November 09, 2008
points
Someday that's just what I'm going to do. :)
Doctors for Others
Please consider coming to this benefit play for Ateneo Med scholars.
It'll be fun for young and old AND...
You'll be planting the seeds of better health care in the Philippines.
The ASMPH goal is to create Doctors for Others who will make a difference here in the RP!
PS, please pass to as many as you can! Thanks
Help a scholar in need
Ateneo School of Medicine and Public Health Student Council (ASMPH-SC),
in partnership with the TEEHANKEE Foundation,
invite you to:
Repertory Philippines'
"A CHRISTMAS CAROL"
A BENEFIT Musical for the
Ateneo Med School Scholars
Join us and enjoy the show and
help a needy scholar stay in school to become
"A Doctor for Others"
Be there. Be one with our cause.
December 13, 2008 (Saturday) 3:30 p.m.
OnStage Theater, 2nd floor
Greenbelt 1, Ayala Center,
Makati City
Tickets available:
Orchestra center - Php 1000 (reserved seating)
Orchestra side - Php 700 (reserved seating)
Orchestra side - Php 600
Balcony - Php 400
A Broadway version of one of the most touching
and enduring Christmas stories of all time.
Based on the beloved Charles Dickens novel,
A Christmas Carol,
tells the story of Ebenezer Scrooge, a bad-tempered miser
who learns the value of love and family after he is visited
by the ghosts of Christmas past, present, and future.
This inspiring, delightful tale, and the engaging music
are sure to be a family favorite.
Its message that there's good in everyone
is a timeless moral of hope,
perfect for the Christmas season's commitment
to peace, joy, hope, and love.
and choose your seats!
Please contact Muriel Go
0927-8742406
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Tuesday, November 04, 2008
"Huwag Kang Mangamba"
Focus dear. FOCUS...
Sunday, November 02, 2008
Stop.
Please don't let today end
Can't we just make time stop? I can't handle it any longer. I don't want to grow up. I don't want to handle these responsibilities. I don't want to feel this. I am still too scared. I am getting hurt in the process.
I don't want to grow up. :(
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When the Lord saw her... he said to her: 'Do not weep' (Lk 7,13)
Letter 19; PL 80, 665
When the Lord saw her... he said to her: 'Do not weep' (Lk 7,13)
Christ, hope of the believer, does not call those who leave this world 'dead' but 'sleeping' when he says: «Our friend Lazarus is asleep» (Jn 11,11). The apostle Paul, likewise, does not want us to be grieved «about those who have fallen asleep» (1Thes 4,13). By this, if our faith holds that «everyone who believes» in Christ, according to his word in the Gospel, «will never die» (Jn 11,26), we know that he himself is not dead and we too will not die. Because «the Lord himself, with a word of command, with the voice of an archangel and with the trumpet of God, will come down from heaven and the dead will rise» (1Thes 4,16). May hope in the resurrection encourage us, then, since we shall see then all those we have lost. It matters that we should firmly believe in him, that is to say that we obey his precepts, since he applies his mighty power to raising the dead with more ease than we rouse those who are asleep.
This is what we say; and yet, I don't know through what feeling, we take refuge in tears and a feeling of regret compromises our faith. Alas! How pitiable man's condition is, and without Christ how empty our life is! But you, O death, who are cruel enough to break the union between spouses and separate those whom friendship unites, from henceforth your power has been shattered. From now on your pitiless yoke has been crushed by him who threatened you through the words of the prophet Hosea: «O death, I will be your death» (Hos 13,14 Vulg.). That is why we hurl our challenge together with the apostle Paul: «Where, O death, is your victory? Where, O death, is your sting?» (1Cor 15,55). He who vanquished you has redeemed us; he has delivered his beloved soul into the hands of sinners that he might make them his beloved friends.
It would take too long to call to mind everything in Holy Scripture that should bring us all consolation. It is enough to hope in the resurrection and raise our eyes to the glory of our Redeemer since it is in him that we are already raised, as our faith gives us to believe, according to the apostle Paul's words: «If we have died with Christ we believe that we shall also live with him» (Rom 6,8).
Saturday, October 25, 2008
STATEMENT ON REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH BILL 5043
Ateneo de Manila University
OFFICE OF THE PRESIDENT
23 October 2008
MEMO TO : THE UNIVERSITY COMMUNITY
FROM : THE PRESIDENT
SUBJECT : STATEMENT ON REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH BILL 5043
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Yesterday, the Manila Standard had a headline story entitled “Ateneo profs defy bishops, back family planning bill.” The article is based on an October 15, 2008 position paper issued by individual faculty members of the Ateneo de Manila, “Catholics Can Support the RH Bill in Good Conscience.” A shorter version of this position paper is attached.
In reply to a request for clarification from His Excellency Most Rev. Angel N. Lagdameo, D.D., President of the CBCP, I wrote him yesterday, October 22, as follows:
First, that “the faculty members clearly state that they are not speaking for the Ateneo de Manila and that this is their personal position.”
Second, that I was asked to respond to this concern a few weeks ago by Archbishop Paciano Aniceto and Bishop Gabriel Reyes and I wrote them on October 2, 2008 regarding our position on the Reproductive Health Bill 5043:
As in all matters that are connected with faith and morals, the Ateneo de Manila, as a Jesuit and Catholic university, stands with the Catholic Bishops Conference of the Philippines (CBCP) and the Philippine Province of the Society of Jesus.
I am familiar with the considered opinion of our moral theologians that, although there are points wherein the aforesaid bill and the Catholic moral tradition are in agreement, there are certain positions and provisions in the bill which are incompatible with principles and specific positions of moral teaching which the Catholic Church has held and continues to hold.
I trust that this will help clarify our position. At the same time, together with the CBCP and the Philippine Province, we favor and encourage honest, sincere and mutually-respectful dialogue on the important issues taken up in the bill.
In my letter to Archbishop Lagdameo yesterday, I also said that several Jesuits would be meeting with the Ateneo faculty members yesterday in a dialogue on this important matter. The dialogue yesterday was forthright and mutually respectful and we pointed out that, while we respect their deep concern for the poor and appreciate our mutual dialogue with them, it is necessary for the Ateneo de Manila as a Jesuit and Catholic university, to state clearly our position on RH Bill 5043. The position of the Ateneo de Manila is as follows:
1) We appreciate the efforts of these members of the Ateneo faculty to grapple with serious social issues and to draw from Catholic moral teaching in their study of the bill.
2) We acknowledge their right to express their views as individual Catholics and appreciate their clear statement that their views are their own and not that of the University.
3) However, the Ateneo de Manila University does not agree with their position of supporting the present bill. As I said in my letter of October 2 to Archbishop Aniceto and Bishop Reyes, it is “the considered opinion of our moral theologians that, although there are points wherein the aforesaid bill and the Catholic moral tradition are in agreement, there are certain positions and provisions in the bill which are incompatible with principles and specific positions of moral teaching which the Catholic Church has held and continues to hold.”
We thus have serious objections to the present bill in the light of our Catholic faith.
4) Ateneo de Manila thus stands with our Church leaders in raising questions about and objections to RH Bill 5043.
5) It is also the responsibility of the Ateneo de Manila as a Jesuit and Catholic university to ensure that, in our classes and other fora, we teach Catholic faith and morals in their integrity.
6) At the same time, as I also wrote on October 2, we support continuing efforts on the critical study and discussion of the bill among Church groups including the University and in civil society.
BIENVENIDO F. NEBRES, S.J. President
Freedom Writers Call for Papers - Deadline Extended
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FREEDOM WRITERS: Young Asians’ Call to Freedom
Call for Contributions
The Young Liberals and Democrats of Asia will be celebrating its 5th
Year Anniversary in October 2008. To commemorate this occasion, YLDA will be publishing a collection of essays entitled, Freedom Writers: Young Asians’ Call to Freedom. The goals of this commemorative book are: 1) to
preserve, promote and shape the current youth’s Asian political thought, 2) to encourage greater youth involvement through writing which provokes thought and action, and 3) to stimulate critical discussion on the issues facing the youth of Asia. The book has three sub-themes:
1. Education and Freedom of Expression
Education brings about knowledge, with knowledge comes greater understanding. Education also brings forth greater desire for sharing and expression. Amidst the differing degrees of openness in the Asian region and varying degrees of educational attainment of Asian societies, this section hopes to detail the distinct struggles faced by Asian youths in acquiring education with emphasis on the claim that education is a liberating process that gives the young both the ultimate and proximate causes for development and freedom.
2. Asian Values and Human Rights
Asians have a strong sense of the importance of the family and community which, when taken to the extreme, is the antithesis of Western emphasis on the importance of individual liberty. As heirs to a cultural value that puts utmost importance on family ties and communal harmony and is either revered or disapproved as conduit of democracy, Asian youths need to speak about their culture as slowly yet continuously reshaped by the forces of globalization. The section seeks to discuss, among other things, how ideals are being reworked and how Asian youths can strike a balance between the individual and the family and community.
3. Youth Empowerment and Political Participation
Today’s world looks more and more to its young people to institute the change they want to see. Since the wave of democratic transitions in the 1990’s, the youths have played crucial role in bringing forth political changes in their country. Their role in tilting the balance of democratic power however does not always translate to expansion and deepening of political participation by the youth in governing. Sadly, Asian youths have yet to make serious dents in the political institutions manned by political vanguards belonging to previous generations. The old maybe dying, but the system refuses to admit that a new one has already been born. This final chapter seeks the opinion, musing, and voices of young Asians about this palpable but unpardonable disjuncture.
We would like to invite you to take part in this special occasion by contributing essays for this book (Please read the guidelines below to know how to submit your essay). Chosen works shall be published in the book and all successful contributors of accepted essays for publication shall receive:
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grace was given to each of us
But grace was given to each of us according to the measure of Christ's gift. Therefore, it says: "He ascended on high and took prisoners captive; he gave gifts to men." What does "he ascended" mean except that he also descended into the lower (regions) of the earth? The one who descended is also the one who ascended far above all the heavens, that he might fill all things. And he gave some as apostles, others as prophets, others as evangelists, others as pastors and teachers, to equip the holy ones for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ, until we all attain to the unity of faith and knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the extent of the full stature of Christ, so that we may no longer be infants, tossed by waves and swept along by every wind of teaching arising from human trickery, from their cunning in the interests of deceitful scheming. Rather, living the truth in love, we should grow in every way into him who is the head, Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, with the proper functioning of each part, brings about the body's growth and builds itself up in love.
Thursday, October 23, 2008
when
There are still anxieties and fears, I know these shall all be gone in time. I long for the day when I shall be able to totally give you my heart, and as you take my hand we shall walk forever.
For now everything seems dark, still. I don't know who's finding who. I'm still waiting, even for that softest whisper.
One thing is for sure. I love you, and you love me, too.
may have strength to comprehend
Thursday of the Twenty-ninth week in Ordinary Time
Letter to the Ephesians 3,14-21.
For this reason I kneel before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named, that he may grant you in accord with the riches of his glory to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in the inner self, and that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, rooted and grounded in love, may have strength to comprehend with all the holy ones what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, so that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. Now to him who is able to accomplish far more than all we ask or imagine, by the power at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.
Psalms 33(32),1-2.4-5.11-12.18-19.
Rejoice, you just, in the LORD; praise from the upright is fitting.
Give thanks to the LORD on the harp; on the ten-stringed lyre offer praise.
For the LORD'S word is true; all his works are trustworthy.
The LORD loves justice and right and fills the earth with goodness.
But the plan of the LORD stands forever, wise designs through all generations.
Happy the nation whose God is the LORD, the people chosen as his very own.
But the LORD'S eyes are upon the reverent, upon those who hope for his gracious help,
Delivering them from death, keeping them alive in times of famine.
Holy Gospel of Jesus Christ according to Saint Luke 12,49-53.
I have come to set the earth on fire, and how I wish it were already blazing! There is a baptism with which I must be baptized, and how great is my anguish until it is accomplished! Do you think that I have come to establish peace on the earth? No, I tell you, but rather division. From now on a household of five will be divided, three against two and two against three; a father will be divided against his son and a son against his father, a mother against her daughter and a daughter against her mother, a mother-in-law against her daughter-in-law and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law."
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
stewards of God's grace :)
If, as I suppose, you have heard of the stewardship of God's grace that was given to me for your benefit, (namely, that) the mystery was made known to me by revelation, as I have written briefly earlier. When you read this you can understand my insight into the mystery of Christ, which was not made known to human beings in other generations as it has now been revealed to his holy apostles and prophets by the Spirit, that the Gentiles are coheirs, members of the same body, and copartners in the promise in Christ Jesus through the gospel. Of this I became a minister by the gift of God's grace that was granted me in accord with the exercise of his power. To me, the very least of all the holy ones, this grace was given, to preach to the Gentiles the inscrutable riches of Christ, and to bring to light (for all) what is the plan of the mystery hidden from ages past in God who created all things, so that the manifold wisdom of God might now be made known through the church to the principalities and authorities in the heavens. This was according to the eternal purpose that he accomplished in Christ Jesus our Lord, in whom we have boldness of speech and confidence of access through faith in him.
Is 12,2-3.4.5-6.
God indeed is my savior; I am confident and unafraid. My strength and my courage is the LORD, and he has been my savior.
With joy you will draw water at the fountain of salvation,
and say on that day: Give thanks to the LORD, acclaim his name; among the nations make known his deeds, proclaim how exalted is his name.
Sing praise to the LORD for his glorious achievement; let this be known throughout all the earth.
Shout with exultation, O city of Zion, for great in your midst is the Holy One of Israel!
Holy Gospel of Jesus Christ according to Saint Luke 12,39-48.
Be sure of this: if the master of the house had known the hour when the thief was coming, he would not have let his house be broken into. You also must be prepared, for at an hour you do not expect, the Son of Man will come." Then Peter said, "Lord, is this parable meant for us or for everyone?" And the Lord replied, "Who, then, is the faithful and prudent steward whom the master will put in charge of his servants to distribute (the) food allowance at the proper time? Blessed is that servant whom his master on arrival finds doing so. Truly, I say to you, he will put him in charge of all his property. But if that servant says to himself, 'My master is delayed in coming,' and begins to beat the menservants and the maidservants, to eat and drink and get drunk, then that servant's master will come on an unexpected day and at an unknown hour and will punish him severely and assign him a place with the unfaithful. That servant who knew his master's will but did not make preparations nor act in accord with his will shall be beaten severely; and the servant who was ignorant of his master's will but acted in a way deserving of a severe beating shall be beaten only lightly. Much will be required of the person entrusted with much, and still more will be demanded of the person entrusted with more.
Copyright © Confraternity of Christian Doctrine, USCCB
Commentary of the day :
Saint Fulgentius (467-532), Bishop
Sermon 1, 2-3; CCL 91A, 889
In order to clarify the role of the servants he set at the head of his people, the Lord spoke this word related by the Gospel: «Who, then is the faithful and prudent steward whom the master will put in charge of his servants to distribute the food allowance at the proper time? Blessed is that servant whom his master on arrival finds doing so»... If we should be wondering in what that food allowance consists, Saint Paul gives us the answer; it is «the measure of faith that God has apportioned» (Rom 12,3). What Christ called an allowance of food, Paul termed a measure of faith to teach us that there is no other spiritual food than the mystery of Christian faith. We give you this allowance of food in the Lord's name every time we speak to you according to the rule of the true faith, illumined by the spiritual gift of grace. As for that allowance, you receive it at the hands of the Lord's stewards each time you hear the word of truth from the mouth of God's servants.
May that food allowance God shares among us be our nourishment. Let us draw from it the solid food of our worthy behaviora so that we may come to the reward of eternal life. Let us believe in him who gives himself as food to us for fear we may collapse on the way (Mt 15,32) and who reserves himself to be our reward so that we may find joy when we reach our homeland. Let us believe and hope in him; let us love him above all and in all. For Christ is our food and will be our reward. Christ is the nourishment and comfort of travelers on their way; he is the contentment and rejoicing of the blessed in their repose.
Sunday, October 19, 2008
Solo
Literal kasi eh! Haha. Buti nalang isa-isa na silang dumating bago magsimula ang Misa. =P
Yun lang. :P Sabaw.
14 Ateneo professors: ‘RH bill adheres to Catholic social teaching’
Carmela Fonbuena, abs-cbnNEWS.com/Newsbreak | 10/16/2008 4:45 PM
Fourteen faculty members of Catholic school Ateneo De Manila University are out to prove that not all Catholics agree with the Catholic Church’s opposition to the controversial reproductive health bill pending in the House of Representatives.
In a 16-page position paper full of quotes from Catholic Church teachings and scientific studies on health, population, and poverty, the faculty members expressed their strong support for House Bill 5043 because “we believe that the provisions of the bill adhere to core principles of the Catholic social teaching.”
The bill is controversial for promoting contraceptives and imposing sex education in schools starting in Grade 5. Catholic bishops have tagged the bill as “pro-abortion” and “anti-life.”
Although they are aware of the Church’s position, the faculty members said in the paper “our reason, informed by our faith, has led us to believe and say otherwise.” They argued that the bill is actually pro-life, pro-women, and pro-poor.
They argued that the HB 5043—by providing universal access to medically-safe, legal, affordable, and quality reproductive health services—will improve the country’ maternal and child health situation, prevent abortion, help poor families, and make the youth more responsible sexually.
“We ask our bishops and fellow Catholics not to block the passage of House Bill 5043…. To campaign against the bill is to deny our people, especially our women, many other benefits, such as maternal and child health and nutrition; promotion of breastfeeding; adolescent and youth health; reproductive health education; prevention and management of gynecological conditions; and provision of information and services addressing the reproductive health needs of marginalized sectors, among others,” the paper said.
Theology department, too
The faculty members came from various departments of Ateneo. One of them belongs to the Department of Theology. They stressed that they are only speaking for themselves and not for the University.
Their position paper came out after the results of Social Weather Station’s poll on public support for the reproductive health bill were released. It showed that 68 percent—7 in every 10 Filipinos—want a law on contraceptives.
The following are the signatories:
1. Marita Castro Guevara (Department of Interdisciplinary Studies)
2. Raymond Aguas (Department of Theology)
3. Liane Pena Alampay (Department of Psychology)
4. Fernando Aldaba (Department of Economics)
5. Remmon Barbaza (Department of Philosophy)
6. Manuel Dy Jr. (Department of Philosophy)
7. Elizabeth Uy Eviota (Department of Sociology-Anthropology)
8. Roberto Guevara (Department of Theology)
9. Anne Marie Karaos (Department of Sociology-Anthropology)
10. Michael Liberatore (Department of Theology)
11. Liza Lim (Department of Sociology-Anthropology)
12. Cristina Jayme Montiel (Deparment of Psychology)
13. Mary Racelis (Department of Sociology-Anthropology)
14. Agustin Martin Rodriguez (Department of Philosophy)
‘Pro-poor, pro-Life, pro-Women’
In saying that the “Scripture teaches us that God has a special concern for the poor and vulnerable,” the faculty members stress the provisions of the reproductive health bill that are “explicitly pro-poor.”
Section 11 of the proposed bill mandates congressional districts to acquire, operate, and maintain “a van to be known as the Mobile Health Care Services” to deliver reproductive health care services to the poor and needy.
The poor’s lack of access to health services is blamed for the poor maternal and child health situation in the Philippines.
· 10 women die every 24 hours from almost entirely preventable cases of related to pregnancy and childbirth.
· 6 out of 10 women deliver at home, where they rarely have access to a skilled birth attendant.
· 24 out of 1,000 babies under one year old die every year.
The paper also stressed the importance of planning the family. “There is no question that poverty in the Philippines is exacerbated by our rapid population growth,” the paper said.
It cited studies showing that women in the lowest quintile, who usually bear an average of six children, have at leas two children more than their ideal number (3.5). They noted that the increase in family size also means a decrease in per capita income, a decrease in per capita savings, and a decrease in per capita expenditure on education and health.
This will be prevented if Filipinos are familiar with the family planning methods, they said. “The inability of women in the poorest quintile to achieve the number of children they want stems from their high unmet need for family planning,” the paper said.
It will also prevent abortion, they said.
Based on 2000 statistics, there were about half million recorded abortion cases—or 27 abortions per 1,000 women. According to the position paper, this is because “abortion has become a family planning method, in the absence of information on and access to any reliable means to prevent an unplanned and unwanted pregnancy.”
Earlier, 27 professors from the University of the Philippines economics department issued a statement, backed by research, supporting the reproductive health bill.
Then repay to Caesar what belongs to Caesar and to God what belongs to God
Then the Pharisees went off and plotted how they might entrap him in speech. They sent their disciples to him, with the Herodians, saying, "Teacher, we know that you are a truthful man and that you teach the way of God in accordance with the truth. And you are not concerned with anyone's opinion, for you do not regard a person's status. Tell us, then, what is your opinion: Is it lawful to pay the census tax to Caesar or not?" Knowing their malice, Jesus said, "Why are you testing me, you hypocrites? Show me the coin that pays the census tax." Then they handed him the Roman coin. He said to them, "Whose image is this and whose inscription?" They replied, "Caesar's." At that he said to them, "Then repay to Caesar what belongs to Caesar and to God what belongs to God."
Friday, October 17, 2008
21 Years of Perseverance
About two years ago I started a tradition of celebrating my Christening Day. Just like my birthday, it's a day that is really important for me.
As a Christian, everyday is a struggle (but as what Dr. G would say, a "loving struggle.") Everyday is a time to discern, to be open to listen to know His will, so that in time, we would be able to commit ourselves for His purpose.
Today we also celebrate the 12th death anniversary of Bro. Richie Fernando S.J.
In him we were also chosen
Friday of the Twenty-eighth week in Ordinary Time
Today the Church celebrates : St. Margaret Mary Alacoque, St. Ignatius of Antioch
Letter to the Ephesians 1,11-14.
In him we were also chosen, destined in accord with the purpose of the one who accomplishes all things according to the intention of his will, so that we might exist for the praise of his glory, we who first hoped in Christ. In him you also, who have heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, and have believed in him, were sealed with the promised holy Spirit, which is the first installment of our inheritance toward redemption as God's possession, to the praise of his glory.
Psalms 33(32),1-2.4-5.12-13.
Rejoice, you just, in the LORD; praise from the upright is fitting.
Give thanks to the LORD on the harp; on the ten-stringed lyre offer praise.
For the LORD'S word is true; all his works are trustworthy.
The LORD loves justice and right and fills the earth with goodness.
Happy the nation whose God is the LORD, the people chosen as his very own.
From heaven the LORD looks down and observes the whole human race,
Holy Gospel of Jesus Christ according to Saint Luke 12,1-7.
Meanwhile, so many people were crowding together that they were trampling one another underfoot. He began to speak, first to his disciples, "Beware of the leaven--that is, the hypocrisy--of the Pharisees. There is nothing concealed that will not be revealed, nor secret that will not be known. Therefore whatever you have said in the darkness will be heard in the light, and what you have whispered behind closed doors will be proclaimed on the housetops. I tell you, my friends, do not be afraid of those who kill the body but after that can do no more. I shall show you whom to fear. Be afraid of the one who after killing has the power to cast into Gehenna; yes, I tell you, be afraid of that one. Are not five sparrows sold for two small coins? Yet not one of them has escaped the notice of God. Even the hairs of your head have all been counted. Do not be afraid. You are worth more than many sparrows.
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Goodbye Flooble Chatterbox :(
My Flooble Chatterbox in my other Blog expired. :( I was completely surprised when I saw this: "Bad id: "jymdrn" (There is no flooble chatterbox with this id. It may have been deleted, or never existed. You can sign up for a new account if you wish.)"
Waaaaaaaaaaaaaah. :( Sobrang tagal na ng chatterbox ko na yun. From the start of my blogging life! :( :( :(
BOOOOOOO. :(
(sorry nag-rant... affected talaga.. will be able to move on soon enough..)
Ang babaw ko. Shiyet.
Good news.
http://www.topuniversities.com/university_rankings/results/2008/overall_rankings/fullrankings/
Sunday, October 12, 2008
Tagged by Kristine
Instructions: List all the names that you were called by and the people who call you that. tag at least 10 members of your contacts and give a comment on their site for them to know they've been tagged.
Full Name: Jasmine Marie Elaine Aquilizan Duran
Nickname: Jaymee
1. Jas - Si Kuya James kapag nang-aasar. Si Ann din maski na nung nasa Ateneo na kami.
2. Jaym - Si Ate Tish lang dati, pero ngayon marami na (tulad nina Guita and Johndi).
3. Jayms - Yung mga tamad na tao na "ee" na nga lang e di pa masabi.
4. Jazie - Yung teacher ko dati sa Filipino nung HS.
5. Mommy Jas - Yung mga lower batch na volunteers sa Bene Kalinga. Pero pauso si Ron.
6. Jaymee James - Si Ate Len pausoooo.
7. Jaymers - Si Vinia! At siya lang ang pwede tumawag sa akin nito.
8. Inay - Si Mikey, ang only anak ko sa ES na ngayon e ANI core na rin!
9. Nanay - Si Kristine. :) Haha. Anak eh.
10. Heart - si Heart hahaha. Classmate ko sa INTACT.
11. Munchkins - Hahahahaha. Si Elijah nung HS. Siya kasi ang "Honeybunch" ko. =P
12. Miss Jaymee - Mga practicumers ko dati sa first job ko. Si Miss Kim. Si TanTan Angeles. Si ate Rina rin kapag inaasar ko siyang Miss Rina. ;)
13. Ate Jaymee - Mga lower batches sa college, lalo na mga DS Kiddies ko. Tapos ngayon mga Pathways students namin.
14. Mimi - Sa bahay. Pauso ko raw ito kasi di ko masabi ang Jaymee dati. >.<
15. Ninang/Nanang - The Rugrats.
16. Jaym-o - Si Partner Marybeth! :)
17. Jaymee Duran - Si Louisa. Pati rin si PJ Mariano. Haha. Minsan si JenTan din.
18. Jasmine - Si King.
19. JME - Si Glenys pagkatapos niya tanungin kung ano ang full name ko.
20. J-me - Si King pa rin, sabi niya parang "J-Lo"
21. Hasmin - May mga ilang teachers nung HS na ganon ang pronunciation. Well, kahit ano naman.
22. Duran-Duran - Si Kim Chua, classmate ko sa Ph101/2.
23. Auntie Jaymee - Si Jescia, pamangkin ko. :)
24. Jaymee-spaghetti - Si SioMai
25. Jaymee-waymee - Si ate Reg haha. Anobuzz.
26. Sabaw-sister - Edi si Sabaw sister: Inca!
Hindi ko na alam kung meron pang iba. Wala na akong maisip. =P I'm not tagging anyone. Ka-tamad eh. Kahit sino nalang. Siguro yung mga na-mention ko sa taas! =P
O, ayan na Kristine ha! Sinagutan ko!
Happy New Year!
Nothing serious, but it still stings a bit! Boo for kids who throw firecrackers at passing vehicles! Boo for apathetic people. Boo!
Hay. :( What's the world coming to?
Ballad of the Scholar's Lament
When I have struggled through three hundred years
of Roman history, and hastened o'er
Some French play-(though I have my private fears
Of flunking sorely when I take the floor
In class),-when I have steeped my soul in gore
And Greek, and figured over half a ream
With Algebra, which I do (not) adore,
How shall I manage to compose a theme?
And munch the golden apples' shiny core,
And lay a lot of heroes on their biers;-
While the great Alec, knocking down a score,
Takes out his handkerchief, boohoo-ing, "More!"-
But harshly I awaken from my dream,
To find a new,-er,-privilege, -in store:
How shall I manage to compose a theme?
And trailed Aeneas from the Trojan shore,
Learned how Achilles, after many jeers,
On piggy Agamemnon got to sore,
And heard how Hercules, Esq., tore
Around, and swept and dusted with a stream,
There's one last duty,-let's not call it bore,-
How shall I manage to compose a theme?
I beat my breast, I tear my hair, I scream:
"Behold, I have a Herculean chore.
How shall I manage to compose a theme?"
Thursday, October 09, 2008
He will give him whatever he needs
And he said to them, "Suppose one of you has a friend to whom he goes at midnight and says, 'Friend, lend me three loaves of bread, for a friend of mine has arrived at my house from a journey and I have nothing to offer him,' and he says in reply from within, 'Do not bother me; the door has already been locked and my children and I are already in bed. I cannot get up to give you anything.' I tell you, if he does not get up to give him the loaves because of their friendship, he will get up to give him whatever he needs because of his persistence. And I tell you, ask and you will receive; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives; and the one who seeks, finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened. What father among you would hand his son a snake when he asks for a fish? Or hand him a scorpion when he asks for an egg? If you then, who are wicked, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the Father in heaven give the holy Spirit to those who ask him?"
Copyright © Confraternity of Christian Doctrine, USCCB
Commentary of the day :
Rabanus Maurus (c.784-856), Benedictine abbot and Bishop
Three books to Bonosus, Bk.3,4; PL 112, 1306
You should never lack confidence in God nor despair of his pity... Sing to the Lord these words of the prophet: «As the eyes of servants are on the hands of their masters, as the eyes of a maid are on the hands of her mistress, so are our eyes on the Lord our God till he have pity on us. Have pity on us, O Lord, have pity on us, for we are more than sated with contempt» (Ps 123[122],2-3)... If we are sated with contempt because of our numberless sins yet our eyes should remain turned to the Lord our God until he has pity on us, nor should we cease to beseech him until he grants us forgiveness for our faults. Indeed, it belongs to the steadfast and persistent soul never to desist from persevering in prayer through despair of being answered but to persist unwearyingly in that prayer until God shows it mercy.
So that you do not begin to think you are offending the Lord by persisting in your prayers when you are not worthy of being heard, remember the parable in the Gospel. There you will find that those who pray to God with importunate perseverance are not displeasing to him, for it is said: «If he does not give it to him because of their friendship, he will get up to give him whatever he needs because of his persistence.» Understand, then, that it is the devil who tempts us to despair of being answered so that hope in God's goodness, anchor of our salvation, foundation of our life, guide for the path heavenwards, may be taken away from us. Paul, the apostle, says: «In hope we were saved» (Rm 8,24).
Wednesday, October 08, 2008
Proofreading.
Matt: "What are you doing?"
Jaym: "I'm fixing my friend's paper."
Matt: "Why you?"
Jaym: "Because I'm her friend."
Matt: "Why? Is it because she's wrong? Is it because she doesn't know how?"
Jaym: "No, she's not wrong. There are just times when we need someone else to help us so that we'll be better."
Matt: "Okay."
Okay.. I think I forgot that I was talking to a 5 y/o. But I didn't know what else to say. Totoo naman diba? Keso nga lang pakinggan, pero totoo. Hays. 28/49 ako currently sa paper niya. Interesting naman. SL ang framework. May mga natututuhan naman ako. :P
Yun lang. Sem break ka na ba? Bakit ka nagbabasa ng blog ko? Haha. =P
Tc.
Monday, October 06, 2008
And who is my neighbor?
There was a scholar of the law who stood up to test him and said, "Teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?" Jesus said to him, "What is written in the law? How do you read it?" He said in reply, "You shall love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, with all your being, with all your strength, and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself." He replied to him, "You have answered correctly; do this and you will live." But because he wished to justify himself, he said to Jesus, "And who is my neighbor?" Jesus replied, "A man fell victim to robbers as he went down from Jerusalem to Jericho. They stripped and beat him and went off leaving him half-dead. A priest happened to be going down that road, but when he saw him, he passed by on the opposite side. Likewise a Levite came to the place, and when he saw him, he passed by on the opposite side. But a Samaritan traveler who came upon him was moved with compassion at the sight. He approached the victim, poured oil and wine over his wounds and bandaged them. Then he lifted him up on his own animal, took him to an inn and cared for him. The next day he took out two silver coins and gave them to the innkeeper with the instruction, 'Take care of him. If you spend more than what I have given you, I shall repay you on my way back.' Which of these three, in your opinion, was neighbor to the robbers' victim?" He answered, "The one who treated him with mercy." Jesus said to him, "Go and do likewise."
Sunday, October 05, 2008
[Fwd]: Blue Eagles Bonfire Incident
Sincerest apologies..
Here's the email Mr. Jun Dalandan circulated to the alumni emails:
Three days ago, photos of wooden planks bearing the names of the DLSU Green Archers stuffed together with those to be used for the Victory bonfire last Tuesday, 30 September were circulated on the Internet. To set the record straight, Fr. Bienvenido F. Nebres, SJ sent a letter of apology to Bro. Armin Luistro, FSC of De La Salle University last Thursday, 2 October 2008 . The second letter is from Mr. Jessie Paredes, HS'54, AB'58.
-- The Office of University Development & Alumni Relations
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Letter of Fr. Nebres, SJ to Bro. Luistro, FSC
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2 October 2008
BROTHER ARMIN LUISTRO, FSC
President
De la Salle University System
2401 Taft Avenue
Manila
Re: Ateneo Bonfire
Dear Bro. Armin,
I would like to extend my deepest apology to you and to the La Sallian community for what some alumnus or student did at the Ateneo Bonfire, namely, write the names of the La Salle players on the wood. Unfortunately, none of us saw it ahead of time, because the wood pile was covered by a tarp against the rain until the time came to light it.
Despite our rivalries in sports, we are both committed to Christian values and what was done is certainly a violation of values we share.
Once again, my deepest apologies to you and to the La Sallian community. We are trying to find out who is responsible for the act.
Sincerely yours,
BIENVENIDO F. NEBRES, SJ
President
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Letter of Mr. Paredes to Fr. Nebres
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3 October 2008
Fr. Bienvenido F. Nebres, SJ
President
Ateneo de Manila University
Dear Fr. Nebres,
I write this letter for two reasons. The first one is to own up to producing the materials with the names of the Green Archers and placing them prominently in the woodpile before the bonfire for all to see.
Secondly, I sincerely apologize to you for the queasy situation you are in as a result of the backlash it created.
While the nature of this letter is a personal apology to you, please feel free to extend it to parties you may deem fit to receive it.
Sincerely,
Jesse Paredes
HS'54, AB'58
Bearing fruit
Homily 5 on the Hexaemeron, 6 (SC 26, p.304)
The Lord continually likens human souls to vines. He says for instance: 'My beloved had a vineyard on a fertile hill» (Is 5,1) and again: «I planted a vineyard and put a hedge round it» (cf Mt 21,33). Clearly it is human souls that he calls his vineyard, and the hedge he has put round them is the security of his commandments and the protection of the angels; for «the angel of the lord will encamp around those who fear him» (Ps 34[33],8). Moreover, by establishing in the Church «apostles in the first place, prophets in the second, and teachers in the third» (1Cor 12,28), he has surrounded us as though by a firmly planted palisade. In addition, the Lord has raised our thoughts to heaven by the examples of saints of past ages. He has kept them from sinking to the earth where they would deserve to be trampled on, and he wills that the bonds of love, like the tendrils of a vine, should attach us to our neighbors and make us rest on them, so that always climbing upward like vines growing on trees, we may reach the loftiest heights.
He also requires that we allow ourselves to be weeded. To be spiritually weeded means to have renounced the worldly ambitions that burdened our hearts. Anyone who has renounced the love of material things and attachment to possessions, or who has come to regard as despicable and deserving of contempt the poor, wretched glory of this world, is like a weeded vine. Freed from the profitless burden of earthly aspirations, that person can breathe again.
Finally, following out the implications of the comparison, we must not run to wood, or, in other words, show off or seek the praise of outsiders. Instead, we must bear fruit by reserving the display of our good works for the true vinedresser (Jn 15,1).
Wednesday, October 01, 2008
Becoming More Human, More Filipino by Nourishing Oneself on Things French
Dr. Leovino Ma. Garcia, Associate Professor of the Department of Philosophy, was conferred the rank of Officier de l'Ordre des Arts et Letres by the Republic of France on September 17, 2008 at the residence of French Ambassador and Mrs. Gerard Chesnel in Makati.
The "Officier" is one of the three “grades” of honoraries given twice a year by the French Minister of Culture and Communication to scholars and artists who have distinguished themselves in culture and the arts and helped cultivate these fields in France and the world. The first grade, the "Chevalier," has up to 200 recipients. Officier, the second rank, has 60 recipients. The third and highest rank "Commandeur" is given to 20 awardees.
Following the conferment, Dr. Garcia gave the following response (printed in full):
Becoming More Human, More Filipino
by Nourishing Oneself on Things French
Leovino Ma. Garcia, Ph.D.
Ateneo de Manila University
Votre Excellence, Monsieur Gerard Chesnel, l’Ambassadeur de la République Française aux Philippines, Madame Ning Chesnel, distinguished officials, distinguished guests, Dr. Antonette Palma Angeles, Academic Vice President & OIC of the Ateneo de Manila University; Dr. Patricia Licuanan, President of Miriam College; Dr. Ma. Assunta Cuyegkeng, Vice President of the Loyola Schools; Dr. Anna Miren Intal, former Vice President of the Loyola Schools; Dr. Marlu Vilches, Dean of the School of Humanities; Mr. Rodolfo Ang, Dean of the John Gokongwei School of Management; Fr. Jose M. Cruz, S.J., Dean of the School of Social Sciences); administrators, colleagues, staff, and students from the Ateneo de Manila University; dear family members--my sisters Cora and Bless, my nephew Emmanuel, my niece Jennifer; faithful friends.
Thank you for being here at such a very short notice, even without receiving the "cartons" or hard copies of your invitations. Je tiens à exprimer ma profonde gratitude à vous tous. Vous êtes des vrais amis. You are true friends who are really here for me and not for the Schengen visas you hope I will be able to intercede for you from France.
I promise to follow three rules in public speaking. Rule 1: I will be brief; rule 2: I will be bright (let me be more humble, I will strive to be bright); and rule 3: I will be gone even before you realize it. I will be brief, be bright, and be gone. Also, I will not be impressing you with my French but rather confirm what you have perhaps suspected—that I do speak French with an Ilocano accent.
Like any thinking person, I searched long and hard and came up with two reasons why the French Ministère de l'Education Nationale is conferring upon me the rank of "Officier" dans l'Ordre des Palmes Académiques. First reason: I am now old enough at 63 and ready for it. Let me explain this. When I was young (with jet-black hair and not with the platinum mop you see me sport), and full of hope, I attended an event where an aged Belgian missionary received a decoration, the Order of Leopold or something. I asked him innocently how one obtained such an award. He bent over me and whispered: "Just keep breathing. Sooner or later, they will give it to you." I feel tempted to suppose therefore that I have been breathing long enough to be conferred this decoration. This first reason, however, seems frivolous and cynical.
Second reason: I may have been predestined to receive this award. Thanks to the good Sisters of St. Paul de Chartres in Vigan, Ilocos Sur—my name “Leovino” comes from a French saint--Saint Lubin (pronounced by my family as Lubín) a 5th century A.D. Bishop of Chartres who happily happens to be the patron saint of wine growers. This is all very well indeed as I profess a weakness for French wine, a weakness which can sometimes lead to more fluency in French and the shedding of inhibition.
Ah, wine, one of the first delights that come to mind when one thinks of France! I suspect many of you here consider me as an odd Ilocano-Ibanag, who prefers to travel to Paree (Paris) rather than to Aparri. But I do not mind that. Hemingway once told a friend: "If you are lucky enough to have lived in Paris as a young man, then wherever you go for the rest of your life, it stays with you, for Paris is a moveable feast."
Of course, after French wine, other French delights are: cheese (fromage), fries (frites), French cuisine, French bread (which is simply baguette), perfume (parfum), high fashion (haute couture), cinema, and last but not least, French kiss. You notice that I have not yet mentioned French philosophy. Please kindly wait.
When we think "France", we remember liberté, égalité, fraternité—liberty, equality, fraternity--values that now belong to all humanity. Still other terms like “coup d’état,” now absorbed into Filipino as “kudeta”, “bourgeois” but simply pronounced by us with a hiss as “burgis”, and "hors d'oeuvres" pronounced as "horse d'ouvres". This second reason is arrogant.
Between the cynical and the arrogant reasons, I would like instead to focus on the significance of this Conferment—on what it has done, on what it is doing. It has incredibly brought us all together. It has brought about the convergence of various "worlds" (in alphabetical order) of academe, art, business, cartography, culture, diplomacy, feminism, law, literature, media, medicine, music, philosophy, politics, science, theater, tourism and other worlds that escape me now. This decoration from the French Government has brought us all together, at such a very short notice, to celebrate the often-unnoticed kinship, the deep-seated friendship between France and the Philippines.
This evening, I want to acknowledge this vibrant friendship not only in my life but in the life of our country. Who would not like to associate with the French—according to Emmanuel Levinas, "a people who equal humanity" ("un people qui égale l'humanité"), and the French nation, "a nation to which one can attach oneself by spirit and heart as much as by roots" ("une nation à laquelle on peut s'attacher par l'esprit et le coeur aussi fortement que par des racines")? Will not one agree with John Adams (the second U.S. president) that France is "one great garden" filled with everything that can "soothe, charm, and bewitch"? Who will not like to exclaim with René Descartes, the father of modernity: "Je pense, donc je suis" ("I think, therefore I am")? This is something dreaded by my students because if they do not think, they cease to exist for me! With Descartes, the Greek and Latin philosophia became philosophie. Descartes first exclaimed to himself “Je pense; donc, je suis” before proclaiming to the wider intellectual community: “Cogito, ergo sum.” He attended the Jesuit college of La Flêche where he was given the privilege of sleeping late because of his poor health. Old habits die hard. Summoned by Queen Christina of Sweden, who insisted on having philosophy lessons very early in the morning, Descartes caught a cold one winter morning and died of pneumonia. I once saw, at the old Musée de l’Homme in Paris, his skull marked with the appropriate label—“homo sapiens.”
Who has not memorized Antoine de St. Exupéry's "On ne voit bien qu'avec le coeur; l'essentiel est invisible pour les yeux" ("one can only see rightly with the heart; what is essential is invisible to the eyes")? Or recited unashamedly, during a light shower, Paul Verlaine's Ariettes Oubliées III:
Il pleure dans mon coeur
Comme il pleut sur la ville,
Quelle est cette langueur
Qui pénètre mon coeur?
It weeps in my heart
as it rains on the town
What languorous hurt
thus pierces my heart?
I first started to learn French in the early sixties, when my Jesuit guru, Fr. Roque J. Ferriols bought me long-playing records of Edith Piaf. I remember listening over and over again to "Non, rien de rien, je ne regrette rien!" ("no, nothing but nothing, I regret nothing!") At the time, I didn't understand the full implication of another song by Edith Piaf-- "Allez venez Milord, il fait si froid dehors!" ("come on in Milord, it is so cold outside!"). In 1970, I came home with an M.A. thesis on Mikel Dufrenne’s Phenomenology of Aesthetic Experience (Phénoménologie de l'expérience Esthétique", and in 1981, a doctoral dissertation on Ricoeur entitled “Between Responsibility and Hope: The Meaning of Human Existence in Paul Ricoeur’s Philosophy of the Will and Social-Political Writings” (Entre la Responsabilité et l'Espérance: Le sens de l'existence humaine dans la Philosophie de la Volonté et dans les écrits socio-politiques de Paul Ricoeur), both from the Universite Catholique de Louvain. Since 1982 until the present, I have been carrying a "loving struggle" with the philosophies of Ricoeur and Levinas.
What have these thinkers taught me? What I give here are provisional, approximative, non-conclusive answers. From Paul Ricoeur, I have learned principally this: "The human being is the Joy of Yes in the sadness of the finite" ("L'homme est la Joie du Oui dans la tristesse du fini". From Emmanuel Levinas, using Dostoevsky's words: "We are all responsible for all for all human beings before all, and I more than all the others" ("Nous sommes tous responsables de tout et de tous devant tous, et moi plus que tous les autres"). For Levinas, the condition for there to be thought is a conscience. It is remarkable that in French, the word "conscience" is both "consciousness" and "conscience". One cannot become aware of oneself without at the same time becoming aware of the Other, without becoming aware of one's responsibility for the Other.
After lovingly struggled with the philosophies of Ricoeur and Levinas, I firmly believe that French philosophers have more interesting things to say on what it means to become human than what it means to be French. I believe that no life can be full until it has at least a French element in it just as I believe that no life can be full until it has also a Filipino element in it. By a strange paradox then, I feel and I think I have become more Filipino, more human because I have been nourished by philosophers like Ricoeur and Levinas. I would also like to think that in my passing on their wisdom to my students, I have inflected them with my own accent, with my own being.
Fr. Ferriols likes to tease me as someone who is "marunong tumawid sa mga lansangan ng Paris" ("adept in crossing the streets of Paris"; "quelqu'un qui sait très bien traverser les grands boulevards de Paris"). That may be true. But for as long as the color of my skin remains the color of tobacco, I will always remain as "the poor boy who knows the fields and rivers of the Cagayan Valley."
Thérèse de Lisieux (Monsieur l'Ambassadeur Chesnel is from Lisieux) once exclaimed "Tout est grace!" Vraiment, tout est grâce! (Truly, everything is grace!) Comment imaginer qu'un garçon, d'origine très humble, recevra ce soir la decoration d'Officier dans l'Ordre des Palmes Académiques? (How can one imagine that a boy of humble origins is receiving tonight the rank of "Officier" in the Order of the Academic Palms?) C'est pour cela que je vous remercie, de tout coeur, Monsieur l'Ambassadeur et ausssi le Ministère de l'Education Nationale de France, pour l'honneur que vous me donnez ce soir. (It is for this reason that I thank you, Mr. Ambassador, and also the French Ministry of National Education) from the heart, for the honor you bestow upon me tonight.
Un grand merci à vous et à tous ici présents. My profound gratitude to you and to all those present here.
Merci infiniment. Maraming salamat. Dios ti ag-ngina.
Congratulations! Maraming salamat din, Dr. G. I am truly grateful that you were part of my formation. :)


